YogaForce By Annie Appleby– www.YogaForce.com

 

#MeToo: When I was a little Girl My Mom tried to teach me to be subtle… It didn’t take.

I was not going to engage in this discussion until I saw this clip from  THE ELLEN SHOW  

What she said rang so true, that I decided to fill you in on my story about  #MeToo.  When I graduated from UC Berkeley I attended a program called CAL IN THE CAPITAL.  I applied and was accepted to work as an intern at ABC NEWS in Washington, DC.  I floated around the newsroom with other interns my age and had a blast.  After my first week, Peter Jennings passed me and I heard him ask “Who is that?”  Then a man replied to him in a low voice, “She is an intern, Peter, leave her alone.”  I did not know what was going on.  I was young and naive.  Soon, Mr. Jennings would ask me to stay in the studio so I could appear at a desk behind him so my friends in California could see me on TV.  That was fun.  But, I sensed something weird was going on and I felt uncomfortable.

One day, soon before he was ready to go on air he invited me into his big office… alone.  That is when I took matters into my own hands, I “accidentally” spilled TAB all over his notes.  Then I told him, I would rather work on the show 20/20 with Geraldo Rivera.  I said, “I am not going to work with you,  and you are going to reassign me downstairs right now or you, Mr. Jennings, will really have a problem!”

I went downstairs and met the medical reporter, he was working on a story about plastic surgery.  The footage was really gross and I did not want to watch, so I went down the hall and met a producer for Geraldo who was working on a story about cocaine. I took one look and fell in love.  He was 10 years my senior and he was single and it was a mutual attraction.  We went out to lunch that day and dated for several years.

Jennings was older and married and attempted to use his power over me.  I was not subtle and I protected myself.  Fast forward many years later, when I got a job at Paramount Pictures, I was not so lucky.  In the 1990’s sexual harassment was a thing but not something at the time the people in the HR Department took very seriously.  My predatory boss brought in much more money to the company than I did. I just started doing yoga on the lot every day, it changed my life!  I cashed out on my 401K after 5 years.  Soon, I called my uncle who was an attorney and told him to trademark the name YogaForce.  I remember the call, “Uncle Milt, do not tell Daddy; But, I am going to try and start a business called YogaForce and I think Yoga is going to change the world.”  In 1995, I did just that.

 

Here is a Podcast about the good guys who helped me out along the way:  https://unravelingpink.com/2017/10/23/napodpomo-huh-30-male-ally-moments-in-30-days/ 

* Note:  If you are bored with these #MeToo stories, beware, this is just the tip of the iceberg.  There will be an avalanche of stories crossing all forms of employment.  Because it is and has always been a problem just now gaining some light.

Guys, it is time to think before you act.  Ask permission.  If it is not granted.  STOP.

###AEA